Why the Sutton hate?

I'm ready to get torched for my opinion, but I'm hoping that people on here can have a healthy discussion on this.

I'm just wondering why the sub suddenly hates Sutton so much and calls her a racist.

This isn't to say that there aren't problematic things she's done, but from what I remember, Sutton is the only one in the group who actually gave the most sincere apology, for the way she behaved, to Crystal. She has not only apologized to Crystal privately, but also publicly when the episode aired. I remember the apology being extremely sincere.

Also, Sutton never begins her apologies with, "I'm sorry IF you're hurt", "I'm sorry YOU feel this way". She actually always owns her faults and takes accountability. There isn't one person on this cast apart from her who does this.

I don't remember Sutton doubling down on her comments after the Crystal episode aired.

I remember Diana giving excuses when she came for a black content creator on IG. I remember Dorit doubling down after the Garcelle "living in her bubble" episode. Not only did Dorit double down on IG, after she got flak for it, she put up another post doubling down further. But now cause she's smoked on camera, I guess, all is forgiven.

People are saying that Sutton has definitely said something racist to Crystal (which was not aired), and Crystal did not repeat it in an effort to protect Sutton. Even if this was the case, why has Crystal chosen to continue a good friendship with Sutton off camera. Crystal herself said in an interview, that when her contract was not renewed, Sutton called her and cried on the phone. She has said in multiple interviews that she's the closest to Sutton from the group. They have consistently hung out and cheered each other on since then. Is this also a farce? Why would Crystal want to be friends with a racist?

People are calling Sutton's friendship with Garcelle strategic. According to their logic, Sutton ONLY became friends with Garcelle after her "racist" comments. I actually remember them becoming friends before Crystal even came on the show. In fact the season Crystal came on, in the very first episode, Garcelle mentions in her confessionals that Sutton and her got close in between filming seasons (This is insinuated without breaking the fourth wall). But I guess, Sutton must've preempted the Crystal situation and strategically became friends with Garcelle in an effort to have "a black friend so how can she be racist" narrative.

But these are the same people who are loving Dorit's friendship with Boz. I mean, given their own logic, Dorit was accused of being a Karen last season and then this season, becomes close to Boz. So isn't this friendship "strategic" on Dorit's part? But, no, it's only Sutton who's "strategic".

I've seen people say Sutton was extremely aggressive with Boz this season. I don't know if the show I'm watching is edited for my region (I'm not from the States), but I've literally seen Sutton interact with Boz like two times. I don't remember her being aggressive at all. Did she say Boz was "eloquent", yes she did. Do I think Sutton was being racist, NO. Do I think Sutton doesn't know this can be construed as micro aggressive, YES. I don't think Sutton meant it in a way to demean Boz, she meant that Boz can express herself better than Sutton can. Do I think she needs to be called out for this, YES, but only if Boz felt that way. But if Boz didn't think Sutton was being micro aggressive, we don't get to decide she is or isn't. I also think that sometimes we have to take in context the situation, the conversation and intent before jumping to "this person is racist and needs to be cancelled and fired" train. This isn't me giving Sutton a pass, this is me coming from a place, that as a WOC myself, there have been times where people have said certain things to me, which could be considered micro aggressive, but I knew that the intent wasn't there. Not everyone is well informed and knows every micro aggressive word or situation. In those cases, I kindly tell them and most of them have immediately apologized and never repeated the same. I feel people are also more prone to listening and understanding when I kindly, but firmly educate them. To belittle them or call them a racist, actually doesn't help the situation or growth. This is obviously just my personal experience.

And now everyone's up in arms about how dare Sutton take Garcelle to meet her obviously problematic and dare I say, racist mom. Garcelle is the only one who gets to decide how she felt/ feels about the situation. If Garcelle chooses to be there for her friend, it's her prerogative. If Garcelle felt that Sutton should've have subjected her to Reba, she definitely needs to call her out and we all will support her, no questions asked. But given the way they are with each other off the show and on the After Show, it is clear that Garcelle doesn't feel Sutton is to be blamed for her mother's actions. So why are we all deciding for Garcelle? Why are we blaming Sutton for her mother's actions?

I apologize for the long post. Thank you for reading.