My bf keeps liking/following girls on social media
Problem/Goal: My bf keeps liking/following girls on soc med and I am super over it!
Context: For context my (21F) bf (22M) keeps liking posts and following girls on social media. Before we got together napansin ko naman na marami na siya finofollow noon (yes yes, red flag na yun to begin with for some) pero i didn’t find anything weird about it since if you’ve been single all this time syempre free ka naman mag like at follow ng kahit sino, right?
We are now close to being together for a year and I have brought this up multiple times na and it has gotten exhausting. Nung una naman, sinabi ko yon and inunfollow niya naman yung iba. Pero sa IG you can see what reels your mutuals like and nakita ko yung mga nilalalike niya panay babae and nakabikini pa! I kept asking him why does he have a need to like or follow these girls pero never ako nakakuha ng maayos na sagot o rason. When I brought it up, sabi niya may rason naman daw bakit siya naglalike at follow.
Common reasons niya is, kakilala or before pa naging kami nilalike niya na daw mga yan and syempre ang pinaka best na rason nilalike niya daw talaga lahat ng nakikita niya 🤡
Umabot sa point na sabi niya idedelete niya nalang yung soc med niya, napaka oa! Also, he keeps saying na napagusapan na namin bakit ko pa daw binabalik? hello ibabalik ko ba if inayos mo yang ginagawa mo? Napapagod na rin ako umintindi and this isn’t even scratches the surface of what he’s done from almost a year of being together. The worst part is he keeps dismissing how I feel. Hindi niya ako kakausapin because he needs “space” tas after a few days kakausapin niya ako na parang walang nangyare.
Previous Attempts: tinatry ko mag open up about it but again he keeps dismissing me!
P.S. I do not need your comments on bakit ba di ko pa iwan, unti unti ko na pong inaalis yung sarili ko from the relationship. I just want someone to make me feel na they understand where I am coming from without making me feel na baliw ako. Also please if I am being toxic ba dahil dito let me know kase he makes me feel na wala naman dapat ako ikagalit?