Feeling discouraged about finding “the dress”

I’ve tried on maybe 30 dresses and have spent hours and hours looking online—I’m starting to get overwhelmed. I really liked these two dresses but something doesn’t feel totally right. Am I just freaking out, or does anyone know of a dress that might combine the smaller lace of the second dress with the over all style of the first? I like straight necklines best, a-line, flowy, tulle/lace welcome. Thank you all ☺️🥲